Big Decisions - Page 3

OK Pirate I think you need a reality check. A 4 month relationship is not very long at all in the grand scheme of things. If your boyfriend's going to even think about letting you make this sacrifice to be with him, then he's not worth it. Education is very important, and if he loved you he'd care that you give yourself every advantage in life by going to school, not expect you to drop everything you're doing and leave town with him for whatever he's doing that's so important compared to your life.

If you don't go to school because of 'love', you will literally be making the worst decision of your life (and it's not unlikely you'll be broken up this time next year anyway). But, it's yours to make.

quote Chaos Team

You two are the ones who need to grow up

...says the what, 15 year old?

Your feeble attempts at maturity do give me a laugh though. Perhaps your dreams of moderating Black and White 2 will be realised one day?

quote Chaos Team

Thank you. Honestly Horse and Jeevs, is all of what you're doing really necessary? Pirate already has enough on her mind, as I'm sure you can tell, and this is a very serious issue for her, yet you seem to treat it as some kind of sick joke and that it shouldn't even matter. The phrase "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" sounds really cliché, sure, but I think it definitely applies in a lot of situations, specifically this one. None of what either of you have said thus far should have been said. You don't think she already knows that the relationship hasn't gone on for long and that it doesn't exactly seem like the best choice now? Seriously, she didn't make this thread to be ridiculed and get advice on how bad of a decision it seems. She didn't even make this thread to get advice, as she clearly stated. This is obviously a big decision for her, and she's going through a very unstable time here. Yet you both just aim to make the situation even worse for her, even if you're not trying to. Even further, you think this is all some sort of sick joke? You two are the ones who need to grow up if the best thing you can find to do is ridicule someone on something that is a pretty important situation in her life just for your own sick, sarcastic humor. Really? Do you really think you're being funny by being so ridiculous right now? Honestly, if I had made a thread like this and gotten this type of response, I would take up anyone who was involved up with the mods. This is just absolutely *bleep*ing ridiculous for anyone to do.

And yeah, I realize that either this'll be reported/deleted and I'll receive a ton of hate mail for speaking my mind, but I don't care. Such disrespect for the members on this site should not be allowed to happen.


I really have nothing else to say on the topic of this thread. The only thing maybe is that yesterday I began to think about changing colleges from the one that I've always thought I was going to to another one much farther away.

How did a "mention your big decisions" thread become a "give advice" one? o:

I didn't have any big decision, other than things like "go to a summer vacation in this country or study aboard in another country?" And I'm sure none of these are life changing :L

If the insults and rudeness doesn't stop, I have some insults of my own to throw out along with a nice cooldown time for everyone.

Now now Horse there's a fine line between trolling and getting in trouble....

Also, my Jirachi in my sig can't be beaten.

i'm really tempted to respond to all the stuff that happened while i was at school, but.. *turns and walks away* . as i already mentioned i've made my decision, so whats the point of going on about telling me what i should or shouldnt do? none of you know the extent of my life or my mind as much as you may think you do. yeah i appreciate the advice and all, but i wasnt asking for it -.- all this stuff really did was piss me off. apparently, i simply cant post a thread anymore without SOMEBODY coming in and trolling it to hell. this has happened far too often.

can we lay my stuff to rest and just stay on the actual point of the thread? kthnx

Phi, dark rayquaza.
Ah fair enough. That's why I tried to be careful with what I said and said many. Just in case I forgot an obvious decision. xD I don't really have many choices in schools, we only have one high school close to my area, and my family can't really afford to send me to a private school. o: