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I do believe in being friends before dating is a good idea...from my personal experience to be frank. A lot of people I know were best friends until they started to date each other for years and ended up getting engaged or married and are still together as I'm typing this. XD Most of the time it will be a long term relationship as long as the couple put a lot of efforts in this since relationships do take a LOT OF WORK and PATIENCE and also both of them met the same needs and desires and have the same dream. Without them, it will die (in my opinion!). They have to complete their dreams so that they can provide a stable life for their kids and enjoy their lives at the same time, this way they do what they love for their future children.
And even if they're exact opposite and have the different dream then they need to work it out and eventually make each other happy then it will also work.
And if the couple ends up meeting each other for the first time in years (while they're online friends) and want to get to know each other before dating...whether if the feeling is there or not can work too. If it's there and a miracle happens, they start to date each other and end up together for years before getting married which it RARELY happens and they must be extremely lucky to be honest to have each other. Since they also met their same goals and needs and dreams...and accept each other for their flaws and fight hard to overcome their obstacles and to take things slowly with each other and still be together after the crap then WOW, I'll give that to them! (:
Like someone once tells me this, "I believe Fate guides us to the ones we love. And use dating as a way for us to learn who we are." Beautiful quote huh? XD
All right that's it for now!