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Vex the Pirate Come in my meowth? True Addiction total posts: 17580 since: Aug 2004	Jan 15, 13 at 12:06am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	Log in to remove this sponsored message My current relationship came from my fella cheating on his ex with me, and i trust him completely because i know he's not normally like that. Cheating doesn't automatically make you a shitty person to date or an awful monster. Maybe cheating lots of times, sure, but not just a one off or whatever ------------------- ort
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Zazomy Question everything. Neo or Bust total posts: 7010 since: Sep 2006	Jan 15, 13 at 12:13am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	I'd never enter a relationship with someone who I know has been unfaithful in the past. If they have the capacity to do it once, they have the capacity to do it again. Having been cheated on in the past, I would never cheat on someone else, it's a horrible feeling. -------------------
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U_Turn True Addiction since: Apr 2003	Jan 15, 13 at 12:21am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	Nothing's ever black and white and everyone makes mistakes. We're taught that we should learn from our mistakes but how can we do so if there's people unwilling to forgive us for our acts even though it didn't effect them in anyway? I'd get into a relationship with someone that cheated, and I'd have sex with a girl looking to cheat on her boyfriend. The way I see it is if it's not with you then it'll be with someone else. I might give relationship advice afterwards, though I've never cheated and never plan to. If I'd be willing to cheat then it's a sign I need to end the relationship. quote Jak66 Cheating is atrocious. I would never believe a word from a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater is true because the act of it is like that of a drug such as cocaine, and it becomes an addicting the first time you do it, no matter what. You cannot trust a cheater. Period. If you do you are a bleeping retard. Period. And you know this because? Also I never saw the point in putting the word "Period" at the end of a sentence whereby you've already used a period to signal the end of the sentence. ------------------- "The lips of wisdom are closed, except to the ears of Understanding."
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Zazomy Question everything. Neo or Bust total posts: 7010 since: Sep 2006	Jan 15, 13 at 12:26am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	It's not that I'd never forgive a cheater, I forgave the ex who cheated on me and she and I are good friends now, but I'd not allow myself to have a relationship with someone who I know had cheated because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself. I'd be friends with a cheater, several of my friends have been unfaithful with exes, but they're still great friends, I'd just never take it any further given the opportunity. -------------------
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Avalith IT'S TIME TO OVERCOMPENSATE! CruisiN' wiki leader neowiki total posts: 22010 neopoints: 151 since: Jul 2003	Jan 15, 13 at 12:30am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Vex the Pirate Cheating doesn't automatically make you a shitty person to date or an awful monster. Maybe cheating lots of times, sure, but not just a one off or whatever This. Right here. She gets it. Really it depends on the situation. If she cheated because she felt abandoned by her current or former significant other, I'd look the other way. If she cheated out of spite or some other reason, I'd be a little more careful about entering into a relationship with that girl. Some people want to have a "legitimate" reason to condemn others and lift themselves up by saying they'd never stoop that low. I've been cheated on before and no, it's not pretty. It hurts, no matter what the other person's motivation for it was. That doesn't mean I'm going to leave someone just because they told me they cheated on an ex. I'd find out why they cheated first. People are capable of change. Many just choose not to. -------------------
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Vex the Pirate Come in my meowth? True Addiction total posts: 17580 since: Aug 2004	Jan 15, 13 at 12:35am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote U_Turn Also I never saw the point in putting the word "Period" at the end of a sentence whereby you've already used a period to signal the end of the sentence. I get it in a spoken sentence and i get that it's just come up online because he probably says it irl, but what i don't get is using it once then using it again directly after >> I thought it was meant to be a way of saying "that's all i have to say on the matter" ------------------- ort
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U_Turn True Addiction since: Apr 2003	Jan 15, 13 at 12:41am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Zazomy It's not that I'd never forgive a cheater, I forgave the ex who cheated on me and she and I are good friends now, but I'd not allow myself to have a relationship with someone who I know had cheated because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself. Each to their own but I don't see why someone's past should have to taint their future, especially when you're a different man to the one they were involved with. I'd never condone cheating, but some people find it harder to escape loveless relationships. Maybe I'm a little weird but I'd find a strange sense of trust in a girl if she cheated on me and admitted to it the first moment she got the chance... well if she was remorseful and apologetic. quote Vex the Pirate I get it in a spoken sentence and i get that it's just come up online because he probably says it irl, but what i don't get is using it once then using it again directly after >> I thought it was meant to be a way of saying "that's all i have to say on the matter" lol Yeah I thought that too. I understand its use but I still think it looks rather stupid in text. ------------------- "The lips of wisdom are closed, except to the ears of Understanding."
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The Hazard Liquor at the front, poker in the rear Elite Seeker total posts: 31554 GameGrep pts: 229 since: Dec 2004	Jan 15, 13 at 12:43am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Jak66 Cheating is atrocious. I would never believe a word from a cheater. Once a cheater, always a cheater is true because the act of it is like that of a drug such as cocaine, and it becomes an addicting the first time you do it, no matter what. You cannot trust a cheater. Period. If you do you are a bleeping retard. Period. errr k Cheating is atrocious but there are plenty of reasons for doing it, it's wack to assume that someone will be a cheating-happy whore the second he/she starts doing it. Sometimes it's really down to the victim who dropped the ball/wasn't up to par, sorry to say. And while that doesn't justify anything, it certainly disproves the drug theory or the idea that they all like that. Some of them have this thing called... you know... a conscience. It's that thing that makes them feel bad about their actions, yanno There's a stark difference between cheating once, and cheating multiple times. In both instances that makes you a slut, but in varying degrees and suggesting a rapid change from the former to the latter is somewhat of a stretch. For those reasons, I say yeah I would get with a girl who cheated before. I would only let a girl cheat on her partner with me if I don't know the guy whatsoever, and if I don't know the distinct details of their relationship, ergo what I'm exactly breaking. so it likely couldn't be with a friend either.
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KR_1250 Custom Title Goes Here. Neolithic total posts: 6289 since: Apr 2006	Jan 15, 13 at 12:45am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Vex the Pirate My current relationship came from my fella cheating on his ex with me, and i trust him completely because i know he's not normally like that. Cheating doesn't automatically make you a shitty person to date or an awful monster. Maybe cheating lots of times, sure, but not just a one off or whatever Aww yeah i dont think its a set in stone rule. But in my life experience every single cheater i know has went on to do it multiple times. Maybe I'm just a statistical anomoly but i dont know one i'd trust. I think those who do it once do retain that capability. Wither or not they use it is a different situation. I hope you have better luck than your mans ex. I also dont buy this excuse that there can be reasons for cheating. Ok well there may be reasons but none which justify the act. Why not just stop being an utter coward and just end the relationsip instead?
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Zazomy Question everything. Neo or Bust total posts: 7010 since: Sep 2006	Jan 15, 13 at 12:46am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote U_Turn quote Zazomy It's not that I'd never forgive a cheater, I forgave the ex who cheated on me and she and I are good friends now, but I'd not allow myself to have a relationship with someone who I know had cheated because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself. Each to their own but I don't see why someone's past should have to taint their future, especially when you're a different man to the one they were involved with. I'd never condone cheating, but some people find it harder to escape loveless relationships. Maybe I'm a little weird but I'd find a strange sense of trust in a girl if she cheated on me and admitted to it the first moment she got the chance... well if she was remorseful and apologetic. I far have less faith in girls than I ought to, but that's the product of lots of different things. My girlfriend has never cheated on anybody, she has been cheated on, as have I, so we both understand the hurt. You can never put guarantees on anything though, how much is a promise worth? It's just words. It's this horrible pessimistic view on life that I'm trying desperately to shed, cause it does make me a pretty miserable person sometimes! quote The Hazard I would only let a girl cheat on her partner with me if I don't know the guy whatsoever, and if I don't know the distinct details of their relationship, ergo what I'm exactly breaking. so it likely couldn't be with a friend either. What if you knew the guy, but he was an arrogant prick who was being an absolute bleep to his girlfriend, would you consider it then? -------------------
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Dragoon moderator Action [wii-u] Doctor Who total posts: 14361 since: Mar 2009	Jan 15, 13 at 12:50am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Demonfurby Definitely not. Cheating's disgusting ------------------- "Run you clever boy, and remember"
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U_Turn True Addiction since: Apr 2003	Jan 15, 13 at 12:52am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Zazomy I far have less faith in girls than I ought to, but that's the product of lots of different things. My girlfriend has never cheated on anybody, she has been cheated on, as have I, so we both understand the hurt. You can never put guarantees on anything though, how much is a promise worth? It's just words. It's this horrible pessimistic view on life that I'm trying desperately to shed, cause it does make me a pretty miserable person sometimes! That's it, if someone hasn't cheated it doesn't necessarily mean they never will. Sometimes the ones you'd least expect are the ones that are most notorious for it. It is something you'd want to shed yourself of because if someone is to cheat then they're going to do it no matter how much you fret about it. In fact, supposedly the subconscious can guide you towards picking partners that are likely to cheat on you if you're fretting so much about it happening. But that may just be pseudoscience, I haven't really investigated too much into it. ------------------- "The lips of wisdom are closed, except to the ears of Understanding."
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Zazomy Question everything. Neo or Bust total posts: 7010 since: Sep 2006	Jan 15, 13 at 12:57am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote U_Turn quote Zazomy I far have less faith in girls than I ought to, but that's the product of lots of different things. My girlfriend has never cheated on anybody, she has been cheated on, as have I, so we both understand the hurt. You can never put guarantees on anything though, how much is a promise worth? It's just words. It's this horrible pessimistic view on life that I'm trying desperately to shed, cause it does make me a pretty miserable person sometimes! That's it, if someone hasn't cheated it doesn't necessarily mean they never will. Sometimes the ones you'd least expect are the ones that are most notorious for it. It is something you'd want to shed yourself of because if someone is to cheat then they're going to do it no matter how much you fret about it. In fact, supposedly the subconscious can guide you towards picking partners that are likely to cheat on you if you're fretting so much about it happening. But that may just be pseudoscience, I haven't really investigated too much into it. I have faith that she won't cheat on me, we're pretty loved up, she makes me happy and it seems like I make her happy too. I'm getting better and better at the not-fretting about it. -------------------
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U_Turn True Addiction since: Apr 2003	Jan 15, 13 at 1:09am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Zazomy I have faith that she won't cheat on me, we're pretty loved up, she makes me happy and it seems like I make her happy too. I'm getting better and better at the not-fretting about it. Good for you. Hopefully with time you can prove to each other that not everyone is out to rip out your heart and stomp on it. ------------------- "The lips of wisdom are closed, except to the ears of Understanding."
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Horse U R A Q T Resident Neo since: May 2010	Jan 15, 13 at 2:28am ^ re: Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?
	quote Vex the Pirate My current relationship came from my fella cheating on his ex with me, and i trust him completely because i know he's not normally like that. Cheating doesn't automatically make you a shitty person to date or an awful monster. Maybe cheating lots of times, sure, but not just a one off or whatever Pretty sure your tone would be different if it was the other way around. ------------------- jbh, your personality shines bright like a laser pointer to an aeroplane cockpit.
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