Leader or Follower?

In your groups of friends, however many of them as you may have or not have, are you the leader, the follower, or just a regular?
The leader of course being the one who takes all the action and decides what are they going to do, the follower being the one who just follows the group around and has no decision in activities, and the regular being the one who talks and also has a choice in the matter.
I will say most of the time I'm the leader, but sometimes I end up a regular, like when I get invited to a place or something.

Well most groups of friends do have leaders, only some don't, some do what they all want to do. But that's rare nowadays IMO.

quote Lambda

loner (which you forgot

I didn't realize that some Loungin' members would be so far down the Social Food Chain.

_{Leader. I tell people what to do, they don't tell me.}

Leader.Everyone looks to for me advice because I'm the smart one.

I am a bit of both. I tend to be really over bearing on things, so I will take lead, but it is also nice to sit back and "follow" people. Then again...when I follow it is usually because I pushed the person into being a leader because I know I can manipulate the situation.

Scratch that, I am the leader.

This question is redundant as people are all ready to say they are leaders, when they are online. I am pretty sure one or two are honest, but others (the majority) are just trying to glorify their sad follower lives.

Me personally? It depends on the group I am in, friendship groups, I am quite happy to go with the flow. In work/college, I prefer to be in control and thus take the leader role when appropriate.

I'm a regular leaning on the leader side.

I'm really independant in the way I want things and think about things.

Usually if I'm with just one another friend I'll propose things to do. But if I'm with a group then I kinda hang back. In a group we usually just hang about anyways.

Awesome friends FTW!