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Leader or Follower?

In your groups of friends, however many of them as you may have or not have, are you the leader, the follower, or just a regular?
The leader of course being the one who takes all the action and decides what are they going to do, the follower being the one who just follows the group around and has no decision in activities, and the regular being the one who talks and also has a choice in the matter.
I will say most of the time I'm the leader, but sometimes I end up a regular, like when I get invited to a place or something.


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re: Leader or Follower?

I never really figured that people with friends had a leader, but rather, they just did what they all wanted to do. Maybe one talks more than the others. He often isn't the leader.



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re: Leader or Follower?

Well most groups of friends do have leaders, only some don't, some do what they all want to do. But that's rare nowadays IMO.



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re: Leader or Follower?

Definitely a follower. That or loner (which you forgot), there are a lot of times that I will just do stuff alone



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re: Leader or Follower?


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loner (which you forgot
I didn't realize that some Loungin' members would be so far down the Social Food Chain.


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    I don't trust myself to make exciting plans or decisions so I never have much input into my group's plans. 3:





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Leader. I tell people what to do, they don't tell me.






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Nov 12, 09 at 10:14pm
re: Leader or Follower?

Umm, regular I suppose. I let other people organise things, but if I really don't want to do it, I don't.

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re: Leader or Follower?

Leader.Everyone looks to for me advice because I'm the smart one.



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re: Leader or Follower?

Usually a follower, but a leader if I want. It's important to be good at both.
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re: Leader or Follower?

I am a bit of both. I tend to be really over bearing on things, so I will take lead, but it is also nice to sit back and "follow" people. Then again...when I follow it is usually because I pushed the person into being a leader because I know I can manipulate the situation.

Scratch that, I am the leader.
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Nov 12, 09 at 10:36pm
re: Leader or Follower?

Yes sir!



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Nov 12, 09 at 10:40pm
re: Leader or Follower?

This question is redundant as people are all ready to say they are leaders, when they are online. I am pretty sure one or two are honest, but others (the majority) are just trying to glorify their sad follower lives.

Me personally? It depends on the group I am in, friendship groups, I am quite happy to go with the flow. In work/college, I prefer to be in control and thus take the leader role when appropriate.


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re: Leader or Follower?

Depends I am in a lot of different groups of friends. In the one I hang out in the most though I am definitely a leader.



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Nov 12, 09 at 10:58pm
re: Leader or Follower?

I'm a regular leaning on the leader side.

I'm really independant in the way I want things and think about things.

Usually if I'm with just one another friend I'll propose things to do. But if I'm with a group then I kinda hang back. In a group we usually just hang about anyways.

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