Dating: Asking, Conflicts, relationships, and Tips 2011c - Page 3

Ask him if he wants to hang out outside of school. Don't pre-meditate it. If you do, you'll end up scaring yourself out of it.
If you're lucky, he'll make the move the last day of school. You could easily pull off ”hey, do you wanna go get some coffee with me?” It doesnt have to be coffee. Maybe plan to go to the mall later and have your friends ” ditch” you.

Don't let him go. You'll regret it later on.

When he holds you from behind, put your hands over his and lean into him. Not so much to throw off balance but enough to where he will notice. Whatever action he does, show him you've noticed and you enjoy his attention. If he puts his cheek against yours, slightly kind of... nod up into his cheek then settle back down. Or do whatever you feel will encourage him.

Of all things though, remain calm. Confidence works wanders.



For my own question....

What can I get my partner for christmas and his birthday? His bday is xmas eve. He mentioned he wanted a ps2 game but I already bought him Skyrim for ps3. All the other things he had mentioned are house items. Ie grill, blanket, shoes. What do guys like for presents?

I'll have to buy the ps2 as well. I want to but I know he'll still end up playing skyrim. He wakes up early just to play it before I get a chance to. Both of the games are rpg style. I'll probably still get it but other than a game, what do guys like?

Personally I got the quasi-boyfriend one of the seasons of a TV show he likes on DVD, but that's because he really really liked that particular season and loves that particular show. Something personal is always good, everyone has their little quirks and hobbies. Just pick something out that fits with their quirks and interests and they'll probably like it.

quote Romantic1

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Soo..You mean I should tell him?? when I said I am shy I meant it. Atleast when it comes to this guy.. Otherwise I'm fine but I feel like I blush so hardcore when he just smiles at me.. I feel like he is outgoing enough that since he has the nerve to grab me whenever I'm nearby he would be able to tell me if he likes me..that's why I'm so confused cuz he just doesn't..

Confessing your feelings is idiotic and should be left for the fantasy worlds of television and film. It comes off as desperate and creepy to just go up to someone and tell them you have a super crush on them and want to have their *bleep*ing babies and have chose names for them.

Ask them on a date.
Make a move.
Ta-da. You are either rejected or accepted and can move on with your life one way or another. Without any turn-off confessions.

quote PokeGamer1942

litirally as soon as she saw my stuff she said "you're a dumb-ass, kid..." at left me there. what is so wrong with this!? did offend her?

No, she just has some preconception that games mean you're immature. Never mind the fact that most of my generation and nearly all of yours grew up in the gaming era and most of us continue to play well into our adult years. Don't worry not all women are like this. Mine doesn't care that I play games. It really doesn't matter. She doesn't care to play and so I generally don't play around her. Her daughter on the other hand loves to play games and so when she brings her over we usually end up playing something. Truth is she is the one with the immature attitude and you are probably better off to get that sort of thing out of the way now.

Go to a new years party and try and get with a girl then.

I'm gonna ask this chick out to the movies.

If I buy some popcorn, cut out a little hole at the bottom, stick my thing up there, and tell her to take some popcorn, will I get a successful handjob?

Good/bad idea?

So, I'm going through the "honeymoon phase" right now. Wat do.