Dating: Asking, Conflicts, relationships, and Tips 2011c - Page 23

quote Winter1

A restaurant is good place to go, depending on what the restaurant serves get a couple of dishes that are meant for sharing, it gets you both more involved and gives you something to talk about that seems natural to the situation.

This may be a simple one but smiling helps a lot to, shows you to be positive and women are more likely to respond positively to you overall if you and your body language are happy, smiley and approachable.

quote Aether

I normally don't post in threads like this, but none of my real life friends are actually replying to my desperate texts and facebook messages. 3:

So, me and this girl I have liked ever since I first layed eyes on her have been hanging out for quite a while. I take her to the cinema and to restaurants, until it's the time where I feel it's right for me to ask her out again (I ask her out about a year and a half ago, but obviously she said no). She already knows how I feel about her, because I wrote it in her high school year book.

So yesterday, we went to see The Dark Knight Rises. When I picked her up, she said she had recently had a huge argument with one of her best boy mates, because he felt she wasn't be appreciative. She said to him that she did appreciate that stuff, but didn't want to ruin that relationship by dating him, as he wasn't her type. Before the movie came on, we were talking, and she asked me "If you were really close friends with someone, and they kept doing nice things for you, would you give them a shot?" I said that for me, it would depend on the situation. She said she agrees with me.

So when I took her home, that conversation started again. And I said to her again, "Would you give it a shot?" And she said "What, with me and you?" I said "Just in general, but yeah." She said she didn't know, but she didn't want to ruin the good relationship we already had. She's never had a boyfriend before, so she wants it to be a special thing to her. She did say though she's thought about it before, long and hard. She also said she has to stop friend-zoning people.

Do you think I've got a chance? Do you think I could persuade her to give it a shot with me?