Dating: Asking, Conflicts, relationships, and Tips 2011c - Page 16

Perfect Hit
It sucks. I know. Now you have to focus on finding someone else, or changing the friend zone back. Be sexual, make contact. She already likes you, so you don't have to be worried about her rejecting you. If she catches you looking at her, make eye contact and smile have a few seconds. Call her beautiful, tell her how you feel.

But only try this if you really want her. If not, it won't be worth it. Remember that every person is unique and therefore unpredictable.

Move on by looking at women, and think about their personality. Try to just understand their perspective on life. You'll become distracted and find all emotions lost.

quote Cyanide

Quick Question:

Does the movie really matter on the first date? There's some movie theater I'm going to that lives around my date, but the only movies they're showing are Dr. Seuss, Journey 2, and Safehouse. I was planning on seeing the only rated "R" one, but I've never heard of it.

Will an Action movie be a really stupid choice for a fist date?

Here's an update:

The date went well. We watched that romantic comedy, "This Means War." I got really close to her, bought her food, etc. She might be coming over my house on Saturday and we're going to watch a few movies and get something to eat. The only thing is, we still haven't hooked up because she said she likes to take things slow. Now, I'm reluctant to make any sort of move because I know how awkward she can be. I'm assuming I'll make out with her on Saturday if all goes well, but I'm really horrid at picking up signals.

Can someone help me with that?

To add to that, it's also good to note her reactions to stuff you do. If you touch her or put your arm around her and she seems to feel comfortable with it, that's good. If she isn't comfortable, it would be a good idea to hold off on touching her again for a while.

In 3 days is the day I asked out my gf a year ago. I love her dearly, but I was told she was cheating on me, which kills me because I've had this thought before. We don't live together because I don't wanna live with her (or any woman for that matter) until I'm at least engaged which won't be for a while. What are signs or or ways that can signal it without physically asking her?

quote Lego Master

In 3 days is the day I asked out my gf a year ago. I love her dearly, but I was told she was cheating on me, which kills me because I've had this thought before. We don't live together because I don't wanna live with her (or any woman for that matter) until I'm at least engaged which won't be for a while. What are signs or or ways that can signal it without physically asking her?

How has she been treating you lately? Has she been "busy" lately? Usually women cheat cause the guy is not as attentive and sweet so she goes find someone else that is. If she is cheating on you I feel for you my brotha all you can do is move on without her and give it time. Anyway how has y'all sex life been lately if you don't mind me asking?

Hopefully she's not cheating on you and you guys have an awesome anniversary.

Well since my last message i broke up with my girlfriend, the distance finally got too much and with at least 2 more years untill she would be back home i came to the realization it wasn't going to work for us at this point in time.

But i have a new girlfriend, a girl i done job training with, who i'm on shift with. Going well so far but early in the realationship, we were close friends for 18 weeks so it wasnt that much of leap from that to relationship.

She's a great girl with a unique and funny personality so i hope it continues to go strong with her.

Okay, so I'm unsure what to do in my situation.

I care about a girl, but she still loves her ex boyfriend. They haven't been together for at least a year. But for some reason she keeps going back to him, they hook up and then nothing changes and all that.

We've been seeing each other for over two months now, well until yesterday. Yesterday we had a big blow up, because she went to stay with him Sunday Night. We aren't exclusive so yeah..

But we got in a fight, theres a lot of other stuff going around us. But yeah we got into the fight and she was a real bitch about it. So I sort of said screw the situation.

Anyways I think I've given enough of the backstory.

So Today she texted me and I didn't reply, after five minutes she texted me hello? After thirty she texted me, "Well I see we aren't on speaking terms, text me when you're feeling better"

She apologized for being a bitch and said how at that moment she didn't know what else to do. I was sort of forcing her to choose and she claims that it was adding stress and making her not care.

We were seeing each other, never really together and aren't. She hit me with the line that despite us not being together, she cares about me and she doesn't know what else to do. That if it's meant to be it'll happen. That she doesn't want me to go away...

I sent her something like "The same darlin"

Fast forward a few hours, she's all "well I guess we're just sort of on speaking terms".

I replied back with "Well I was trying to not text you all that much and not bombard you, thought I was giving you what you want."

She says she doesn't know what she wants.

No offense to Women, but she's being the classic woman and I don't know what the hell to do.

Someone help. Please. lol