Dating: Asking, Conflicts, Relationships, and Tips 2011b - Page 24

Or Facebook even! Or maybe you'll see her at school? Nice catch on the hand in the picture though. Hopefully that's enough evidence.

pokegamer1942 well i hope it works out for you then, man haha :L that sucks

oh and yeah i guess americans don't use msn, sorry xD aim, i mean!!
or like mouldy cheese said, facebook is probably an even easier option

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but i think the problem is resolved bcz i told my gf if was going to do something like i would have taken the pic... hope it works...

Wouldn't a better argument be that you're not an asshole who would dump someone by sending them photo evidence of you being a cheating bastard?

I'm not saying that you need to love their mind STRAIGHT AWAY simply because of their sex. But the same goes for men. I'm not going to love a man for his mind by default just because he's a man. He could be a total nutter! You're right. Nobody can demand that kind of love by default. Not men or women.

And not all women think that same. Just like there are men who think differently to other men.

All women don't just want to talk about shopping! Many savour pursuits of the mind over spending time trying on different coloured bras. Man, shopping is one of my least favourite things to do, it's so boring >> You're making very wild generalisations about women there, but hey! Good luck with it.

I give it three days before he's back in here bitching about this one too.

I don't think GG ever complained about the last girl really. She just seemed to go away after a couple of dates.

No Misty you're not the only one that thinks that. But women do the same damn thing and it makes them seem really unapproachable. To be honest after years of looking at online personals I don't think anyone really knows what to put up on those sites. And so many people get tired of the bullshit on them as well. For instance the guy not wanting to be sent to another site, that is because most of the stuff that guys get is porn ads that want them to spend money. The nice guy thing I think is literally the guy struggling to find something to say about himself.

Really most people are far to humble about themselves. I can put on plenty of false bravado when I want but at the end of the day around new people I am always shy. Which makes online personals difficult. It is easy to put on a brave face with your wingman by your side to give you some confidence and push you along. You put on your smile and know he as your back and you show off for his sake a little bit because he makes you brave. And once you get past that first leap and actually make contact with a girl it is so much easier. Most girls won't turn you down flat to your face. And if they do you go back to your buddy and have a laugh about it.

It is a lot harder when you have to go it alone and try and describe why you have value in text. I mean really what gives me any value as a person that will make a woman want me? Worse yet I'm using an online personal because I can't find anyone in person that wants me. I'm probably already feeling pretty down on myself. And it is probably late at night and I'm only there because I'm feeling lonely and depressed. It makes for a bad way to make a first impression when you aren't at the top of your game. But I have seen some good looking women on sites with terrible profiles. Just right out the gate saying I don't do this and don't do that and I won't. I do think most people on those sites are there because they have been beaten down.

Although the ones that make me laugh are the women looking for a sugar daddy, or even better the ones that want to claim they aren't a whore but they need rent money. Face it you want someone to pay you're a hooker, by the very definition of the word. Not a bad thing persay, but don't fool yourself.

Nothing wrong with being honest about what you want.