Dating: Asking, Conflicts, relationships, and Tips - Page 28

Ok here's the deal. I'm in a "friends with benefits" relationship with this chick but the more we have sex, the more she gets attached.
So my question is how can I continue to bang her without her getting all over my ass. And no I won't stop having sex with her because it's too good.

1. *bleep* her and get attached.
2. Stop *bleep*ing her.

Can't be FWB if one of you is getting attached emotionally.

So, just a little question. Probably just me over-complicating things.

There's a girl. New girl - not the same one I was asking about a few pages ago. We're friends; not close friends, but friends. We've been talking on Facebook quite a bit lately, not actually talking, but replying to each others comments, that sorta thing. We might possibly go see a concert together next month.

Now that you have a little backstory, I messaged her last night when she was on. It was pretty brief since she was getting ready to leave for work, but at the end, I told her she should text me if she wanted to. To which she reply, "alrighty, sounds good. gotta run though, leave ur number and ill talk to u soon!", so I did.

It hasn't been a whole day yet, but she hasn't yet - should I be worried? Should I try talking to her again if I see her on Facebook? Or am I just a dumbass and over-complicating things?

Wilhelm Ryan most times people already know the answer to a question and want someone to reassure them. She already showed interest in you and it takes quite a bit of persuasion to get rid of true interest. Unless she found someone else she will get back to you. Even if she found someone, it might not last. It is possible that she won't log on right away or respond right away. Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill.

Hey everyone, quick question.

I'm sort of interested in this girl who's a year older than me, but age isn't the real issue. We tend to get along fairly well, and we playfully tease each other over dumb things, but I don't know whether or not she's interested or just likes to play with people (not like a cold-hearted bitch, just joking, etc.)

Note that this is a very summarized thing, and we've done more than just this. It's been a few weeks.

Now, however, her younger sister has been talking to me recently. I have never met her sister in real life, I'm just a friend of hers on facebook.

Now, as I am an only child and my female friends don't have sisters, I don't know if the girl I like is asking her sister to do this to see my reaction, or if the girl is just doing her own thing.

quote QuadLazer

never assume anything.

quote QuadLazer

never assume anything.

quote QuadLazer

never assume anything.

This is only the best advice anyone could ever give. Don't assume that just because you've been talking for a few weeks, and she may be "flirting", that she may be interested. Like you said, it may be her just playing around. And her little sister talking to you is more than likely her just being friendly. Maybe once you can ask her to tell your sister hi, or something, and see if something comes out of it, but more than likely, it is just her being friendly.

EDIT: Decided to make this post more relevant and talk some more about my past issue.

I talked to my girlfriend many times since then, most of the things she said the day after were full of anger and hurt but Sunday I saw her, things went well until the end of the day when she thought about it more. We talked it out, though, and we ended the night on good terms again. She decided she was overreacting a bit, and genuinely apologized for most of the things she said and did, and the night ended without much tension.

Today, however, the whole day was just... awkward, almost. She was obviously thinking a lot about it, and wouldn't look at me or talk to me much. We had some conversations but it was obvious there was a lot of tension. Yet again, we talked about it a few hours ago. We had talked more about everything, and we're finally at a good point. I'm just afraid when I see her tomorrow, it'll go back to how it was in the day today (i.e. no talking, etc.). She agreed that she was way too upset over something as simple as this, but I'm afraid her seeing me will still upset her a bit...

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Right guys, I'm just wondering if this is normal- I'm gonna get straight to the point.

I'm quite athletic and decent looking I guess, and act very confidently-I can and do *bleep* various women whenever I want. However I find it absolutely impossible to commit to a relationship. Will this be a problem in later life or should I just continue as I am? I'm 18 and at college.


(Not trying to sound like a douche from jershey shore btw)

1- at colledge you get loads of chances to meet people, making it easier to hook up then later in life where work and sex doesn't work well. More of your day you are exposed to women so you have more chances.

2- Your sex drive is supposed to deminish as you get older past your peak. I have different priorities now and so sex isn't as large a part of my life as it was when I was younger.

3- I can't tell you how things will work out for you. In the next 5-10 years of your life you could become a compleatly different person. So much happens at that time in a persons life that you are a blank check.