Dating: Asking, Conflicts, relationships, and Tips - Page 29

quote Symphonic Abyss

YO PEEPS I'VE GOT A QUESTION

Okay, so why do people think 13 is too young to go out? Personally, we've got feelings too, and I'm pretty sure most of you did at the age of 13. So, I don't know why people are like "you should just be friends."

Can someone enlighten me here?

quote Wo Daddy Wo

This thread will be closing soon and another will open. Someone help me think of a new sub-title that we can use in place of the current one: Learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.

Some quote or thought that has been used in this thread that helped bring clarity to others would be awesome.

quote PEStar

quote Validation

Right, needing some help here. I'm looking for help with a girl who I've recently become attracted to, I've noticed her for a while but only recently started to like her for more than a friend. We talk at school sometimes in our free periods and sometimes in our shared A-Level lesson that we are both in. I have contacts with her outside of school via twitter and facebook but that not really relevant, I digress. I'm at the stage where I'm trying to understand if I do like her or if I'm just putting thoughts in my head, if you understand what I mean. At this stage I'm cool and could see myself attracted to her as she is pretty awesome to be around and good looking and I was thinking about possible things to get closer and make it easier to tell her, in other words become closer friends. I was thinking of something around Valentines, our school normally does a secret valentines thing. I was thinking of part-taking in that and seeing what her reaction is to it. She won't know it's from me, it's secret but as she's in a fair few of my lessons so I'd be able to find out and probably see it myself. Thoughts? I'm a pessimistic person so always put myself down when it comes to these things and it's habit I need to shake to have a real chance, I feel.

Thanks for your help.

I'm in the same boat. I've been talking to a girl who I have A-level lessons with, I talk to her in and out of college and we text each other pretty much every day. I know I like her and she likes me, it's just a case of prioritising. I mean, yeah I'd love to be in a relationship right now, but I'm struggling at A level and as stupid as this sounds, I think that's more important at the moment. I just fear that by the time the exams are over, she won't be interested.

Just start talking to her as much as you can without seeming desperate. If you're reasonably close and haven't got her number, ask her for it, but don't make it painfully obvious you like her. Time will tell if she has the same feelings, and Valentine's could be that time. Just wait on it.

quote Free and easy1968

o you people see anything wrong with a single guy going to a dance club to have fun?

quote Free and easy1968

I think what I really need is to just get out and be around more people. Clubs sound like they can be fun.