Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38 - Page 31

Yeah I dunno. I'm going to hang out with her but I don't really care. It's just that I realised my problem at work today, my co-worker pointed out my issue with girls and she told me thta although I'm somewhat muscles, apparently good looking and confident, but I've got a wierd personality... not WIERD, but odd in that for some reason I don't keep girls, only get them. Sure that's way better than a lot of guys, but it's fustrating.

Right now it seems I've waited too long with this girl even though she still wants to chill and I can't be arsed anymore cause we've lost I guess what we had even a week ago. Like in the past week I haven't even seen her once cause she's had basketball everyday which is true, but she hasn't bothered to text me unless I text her so I only bothered like twice this week. We're hanging out tommorow but like I don't even want to, she bailed on our plans to see a film monday cause of basketball.

Yeah, I guess I needed to just get that out lol

@ Jammie:
I think she is getting closer to you maybe because she realizes that shes missing you when shes with another guy, perhaps
I've seen this happen before with my friend. The girl told me that when she is with her boyfriend, she realizes that she enjoys the company of my friend more.

I've run into this problem in the past, and the best thing to do is just be the greatest friend you can be.

Of course it's ok to go in and introduce yourself to her, in fact, if you like her so much I recommend you to do exactly that. You're not going to get anywhere only talking to her online, so if you actually want to ask her on a date you're going to have to spend some time with her in person. And since you guys seem to talk a lot, you probably have a lot in common and will get along well with one another anyway. I can't see why wanting to see her in person would cause her to be unimpressed.

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quote VulcanRaven

That's rough.

Tell me about it.

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Do you happen to know if she's interested in you as well? Maybe you could get these friends of yours to put in a good word for you.

I highly doubt it, she rarely starts up a conversation with where as, with one of the other guys she talks to/texts/playfully hits

And I wouldn't ask any of them really, well maybe one, but the other two would probably juist laygh and go tell some other people making me look like I have no confidence, not to mention stupid. the one I might be able to ask has a GF as of recently, hell I even tried setting the girl I like and him up to make her happy, which is more important to me than pretty much anything else, ANYWAYS, so she may not be interested anymore since he's taken. So life's pretty much an ironic bitch.

Update: We went to homecoming together, as friends, anyway, like every four seconds shed' disappear to go see one of her friends, and she hardly danced with me, although we danced together for all the slow songs, it was really quite irratating.



So it seems to me that she has no interest in me, anyone wanna argue that, or is nothing gonna happen.

It's really caring that you'd be so considerate of his feelings that you'd see him be with her if it made him happy. Just remember though, he wouldn't be with you if you didn't make him happy.

I don't think it's selfish, you obviously make each other happy. I think it's just matter of staying positive and making sure there's plans to see each other whenever you can.

New one up in a minute.