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Chronic Apathy NeoXtreme total posts: 8582 since: Sep 2006	Oct 08, 08 at 3:40am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	Log in to remove this sponsored message Sorry for the double post, but this is about my own problem: I have a quesion about the friend I was talking about in this thread. I'm going to Homecoming this weekend with her because I have to go with someone from the school (I'm homeschooled) to get in. She made it clear that it's only "as friends", but I'm wondering if it'd be tacky to formally ask her ask friends (basically with the intention of at least one dance). If I do, I might end up telling her how I feel depending on how the evening goes. Any advice?
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Magnaillusion CM Deep Pragma Seeketh Maximus wiki moderator digimon total posts: 5444 since: Feb 2005	Oct 08, 08 at 7:28pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	Sorry if I'm interrupting something, I was out for a week and I left a message that got redirected here, so I'll post my question here: quote Magnaillusion CM Ok, I really didn't know if I should post this on I.E. or Loungin' so if this is the wrong thread please let me know. Ok, so the story goes like this: I've got a really good friend and I like to be with him, but our relationship has been deteriorating since I found out something (more later). So, I want to retake this friendship and strengthen it more, but I talked with a female friend (which confessed that she hasn't had the experience) I have confidence in, and she told me that I must not retake our friendship, and what's more, she asked me to be strong (out of my possible human range) and get away from him the most I can until I see him no more. To the point: I really like the guy, but I don't even pretend him to love me back, I just want him to be my friend and that's all, because, although I haven't asked him directly, I'm positively sure that he is not even interested on me. He still talks a little bit with me, I think he hasn't realized, but I don't know what to do. Should I go as I want to and talk to him again? Or should I take my friend's advice and stay as far as possible? I really need help on this topic, I'd really like to retake the relationship, but I don't know if I should because of what my female party said... -------------------
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Tumbles Test-E Please! Still Seekin' total posts: 3594 since: Jun 2007	Oct 08, 08 at 9:11pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	It depends what you found out? Some things are forgiveable and easy to move past and some things aren't. You're leaving out the most important part of the story. ------------------- I'm a survivor. We're a dying breed. It is the final proof of God's omnipotence that he need not exist in order to save us. Thinker's Lounge can't handle my unfiltered brilliance.
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Naked Snak3 That's my secret Cap, I'm always angry. Neolithic total posts: 6823 since: Jun 2005	Oct 09, 08 at 1:16am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote linx I have a question. I'm in the army and I was dating a girl who is also serving. This weekend she dumped me though. It's a shame because we really like each other. Her reasoning was that she wants to be treated equally to all the men. Apparently I was treating her too much like a lady, and she, being a femenist, felt like a "sex object". I've dated my fair share of women, and I treated her with more respect than most. It's a frustrating situation since I've failed treating women like crap and I've failed treating women like royalty. She and I had great chemistry, so it's depressing. Anyone(over age 17) have advice on where to go with the future of my love life? I wouldn't be sad over losing that girlfriends of yours. No offense, but she is a little insecure or psycho. Did she want you to crack sex jokes, fart, and stare at other girls like you were hanging out with the guys? If you treated her like a respectable lady, she is the one with the problem. I'm sure what your question is. Are you asking where to go to find a girlfriend? If you are I would suggest any social gathering where you know you will find the type of girl you are attracted to. ------------------- "We live only a few conscious decades, and we fret ourselves enough for several lifetimes." -C. Hitchens-
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Heretic The Crucified King N'Somniac since: Jan 2008	Oct 09, 08 at 1:28am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote Naked Snak3 No offense, but she is a little insecure or psycho That dosnt mean she is weird she just wanted to be treated equal. I for one had one who refused when i opend the door for her or even did anything gentlemen like for her. I thought she was psyco also, but it turned out she has had to many people being nice an she got fed up with that crap because all of her x's did the same thing and just wanted to get into her pants and she thought i was doing the same thing. Maybe she is like that too. But i have no idea i have never met her or anything like that an i am sorry for that to happen to you. -------------------
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Foxtrot493 Sit, Stay, Play Xbox Resident Neo total posts: 3022 since: Sep 2007	Oct 09, 08 at 9:02pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	Yeah the best thing you can do is be a gentleman because 9/10 girls like that and if they don't then it's jst them being wierd. I always treat my girlfriend like she's #1 (because she is ) and it is really good for both of us because I like doing it and so does she. ------------------- League of Legends: Harris the Ford Steam Account: taccoburrito999
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Fast Eddie till the break of dawn s-e-e-k-e-r total posts: 1566 since: Mar 2008	Oct 11, 08 at 2:15am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	Just wondering.. How would you go about asking a girl out? I love this person, and I would like to ask her out sometime this weekend, but I don't know how to go about doing it.
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Dark Dom Permanently Plugged In total posts: 13595 since: May 2004	Oct 11, 08 at 2:22am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote Fast Eddie How would you go about asking a girl out? I love this person, and I would like to ask her out sometime this weekend, but I don't know how to go about doing it. Casually ask her if she's doing anything this weekend and if she wants to insert activity here. NEVER, EVER say "Do you want to go out with me?" Instant relationship-death right there, girls hate that. And it's cliche. quote Foxtrot493 Yeah the best thing you can do is be a gentleman because 9/10 girls like that and if they don't then it's jst them being wierd. I always treat my girlfriend like she's #1 (because she is ) and it is really good for both of us because I like doing it and so does she. My girlfriend hates being treated lady-like. If I open the door for her, she won't go in. She'll just wait for me to go through. I can't buy her gifts or anything either, she won't accept them. ;\| -------------------
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Gaming Geezer Its a matter of time Seeketh Maximus total posts: 5523 since: Feb 2006	Oct 11, 08 at 2:22am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote AnonymousGuy just because she's dated older guys doesn't mean she knows was a real relationship is. Well as an older guy, sometimes I just don't feel sexy. I just don't feel good about myself, and that has a great impact on my self esteem when it comes to the opposite sex. . ------------------- http://darrelx-letsfaceit.blogspot.com/
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samabenie Neo-newbie total posts: -75 since: May 2008	Oct 11, 08 at 3:05am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	I have a question: How do I win a girl who's between choosing two different guys? ------------------- Xboxlive:Samjsusfreak Zune:samabenie
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Chronic Apathy NeoXtreme total posts: 8582 since: Sep 2006	Oct 11, 08 at 5:17am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote sam abe nie I have a question: How do I win a girl who's between choosing two different guys? This one's easy, just do stuff for her; don't try to buy her love, as that'll either make the relationship lack any real "spark" or push her away, but take her to a park, hold her hand, tell her how much you like her, just be a gentleman and show her why she likes you at all.
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SnakeEater9590 [AoC] Unite! mad messenger total posts: 277 since: Jul 2006	Oct 11, 08 at 5:51am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	Dear neo, This has been an ongoing problem in every relationship I've ever had, and that's about 5. In each of these relationships I seem to have gotten, at a certain point in each, extremely clingy. This has caused me to consistently need them to tell me about their feelings for me, be lovey-dovey, et cetera. You know, the trait that is mainly characteristic of girls to guys? Yeah, I'm the reverse case. And I know the solution is simply "DON'T DO THAT", but it hasn't been that easy. Suggestions? Thanks! -------------------
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Dark Dom Permanently Plugged In total posts: 13595 since: May 2004	Oct 11, 08 at 5:54am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote SnakeEater9590 This has been an ongoing problem in every relationship I've ever had, and that's about 5. In each of these relationships I seem to have gotten, at a certain point in each, extremely clingy. This has caused me to consistently need them to tell me about their feelings for me, be lovey-dovey, et cetera. You know, the trait that is mainly characteristic of girls to guys? Yeah, I'm the reverse case. And I know the solution is simply "DON'T DO THAT", but it hasn't been that easy. Suggestions? Why is that a bad thing? -------------------
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Naked Snak3 That's my secret Cap, I'm always angry. Neolithic total posts: 6823 since: Jun 2005	Oct 11, 08 at 5:58am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	quote SnakeEater9590 Dear neo, This has been an ongoing problem in every relationship I've ever had, and that's about 5. In each of these relationships I seem to have gotten, at a certain point in each, extremely clingy. This has caused me to consistently need them to tell me about their feelings for me, be lovey-dovey, et cetera. You know, the trait that is mainly characteristic of girls to guys? Yeah, I'm the reverse case. And I know the solution is simply "DON'T DO THAT", but it hasn't been that easy. Suggestions? Thanks! You are just a "lovey-dovey" kind of guy. Face it, you just are. It's not a problem, unless you make it a problem. ------------------- "We live only a few conscious decades, and we fret ourselves enough for several lifetimes." -C. Hitchens-
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SnakeEater9590 [AoC] Unite! mad messenger total posts: 277 since: Jul 2006	Oct 11, 08 at 6:02am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^38
	It seems almost that it makes me paranoid that they're losing feelings because mine are so excessively tenacious. I guess that's what I'm asking about avoiding.
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