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Koloth I travel the river of blood True Addiction total posts: 18978 since: Nov 2002	Jun 05, 08 at 12:19am ^ Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	Log in to remove this sponsored message [Previous thread] Welcome to Neoseeker match game. The online dating show that pairs up two singles for the blind date of their life. Are you ready to meet our contestants? Alright guys and gals. You know what to do from here. ------------------- Education Forum\|Books & Literature My Brute
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gcguyfromhell Love is for the Blind member: postin' posse total posts: 569 since: May 2008	Jun 05, 08 at 12:43am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	quote Koloth [Previous thread] Welcome to Neoseeker match game. The online dating show that pairs up two singles for the blind date of their life. Are you ready to meet our contestants? Alright guys and gals. You know what to do from here. no...actually I don't know what to do from here... ------------------- Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.
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Tumbles Test-E Please! Still Seekin' total posts: 3594 since: Jun 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 12:44am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	where do i sign up as a contestant ------------------- I'm a survivor. We're a dying breed. It is the final proof of God's omnipotence that he need not exist in order to save us. Thinker's Lounge can't handle my unfiltered brilliance.
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Koloth I travel the river of blood True Addiction total posts: 18978 since: Nov 2002	Jun 05, 08 at 5:29am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	Koloth fails at humor apparently... Carry on with your dating questions and answers. ------------------- Education Forum\|Books & Literature My Brute
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Kafani WHO DAT NeoXtreme since: Aug 2003	Jun 05, 08 at 9:44am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	Just a quick question... I broke up with my ex 5 months ago after a 2 year relationship. I don't want to be with her because after we broke up, she made out with random guys and pretty much messed her life up, academically and such. However, if I take the time to think about it, I still care about her and love her. Not in a jealous or controlling way, more like almost a family member. Just a love that never went away after our relationship, I guess. My question is, can I love her without actually having anything to do with her? I honestly don't even care if shes in my life or not. And my own thought is that my love for her is none of her business because it doesn't affect her if I don't want it to. Is this normal behavior, I know it sounds weird. Usually if you love someone, you want to be with them. But when I love her, it just makes me happy. If I actually knew what was going on in her life, I probably wouldn't be. ------------------- Express yourself
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sheepman Two much Neo since: Feb 2004	Jun 05, 08 at 10:49am ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	So you love her, don't feel yourself 'needing' her and feel good when you think about her? Sounds like a decent position to be in. Often when people break up they have feelings which make it feel as though they 'need' their ex. You feel good and you did not enter a 'bad' break up. I personally think you should distance yourself from her. You probably don't need to put yourself in the position to feel worried for her and she most likely will not appreciate the love and care you give her to pull her out of the mess. ------------------- Instead of the cross, the Albatross About my neck was hung.
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Bale Fire Neolithic total posts: 6422 GameGrep pts: 18209 since: Jan 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 12:18pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	Ok who's up for another sticky situation? I'll keep this as short as I can. My ex and I broke up almost a year ago. That was back in year 10 and now were in Year 11 in a new school. We still talk and have actually become quite good friends, now here's the problem. She basically wants sex, from anyone really. She hasn't had all that much luck with the guys lately (shes not exactly drop dead gorgeous) and is starting to get very frustrated about not being able to get some, so much so that she even approached me and asked for some no attachments sex multiple times, no relationship just casual lovemaking. Now I refused because I'm not into that sort of thing and don't want to accidentally get drawn into another relationship with her again but I want to help her, she clearly needs some kind of help but I'm not sure what to do. She's not like a maniac about it or anything (though this kind of attitude at our age is a bit weird) but she does get a bit sad sometimes. Any ideas? -------------------
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H_o_p_e Battosai ==)>>>>>>>>> Resident Neo total posts: 3122 since: Oct 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 12:39pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	If you want sum sexin too, go for it. You CAN have JUST sex, and she proposed it.... Make her feel good about herself, just lay down the law b4 hand, and let her know its a one time deal with no attached feelings. ------------------- "Among thousands of comrades and ten thousand enemies, only you... only you made me forget my dream."
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Validation On loan to LG2 11/12 True Addiction since: Mar 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 4:36pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	quote quote matty1605 Hope: Screw her. If your going to give up something, do it for yourself. Not for you. Nel: Its possible she has no credit [and no money to buy credit] and has to wait til shes on a computer to webtext you. The exact same thing happened to me with a girl a while back and that was the reason. Validation: Im sorry but it kinda seems that shes not interested. Shes doing her GCSEs so she prob doesnt want any relationships to distract her. Plus her finishing those exams might mean she feels like an adult and want to go out with older men. It sucks, but it happens Bardock: Sometimes you just need to have a break from a girl to grow. I wouldnt say completely forget about her, but go and have fun this summer. Meet girls, try new things and you might find out that that there are much better girls than your ex. Well , i knew she wasn't interested in me but i was just asking what would be the best way to build a good friendship with her as i find it hard to talk to her. I feel depressed about it. -------------------
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Matty Self-titled Seeketh Maximus total posts: 5817 since: Jan 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 6:36pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	Validation, yah, i did miss the point there a bit ... My advice would be to leave it for a while. If you continue trying to pursue her, even just for friendship, its still going to look like your fishing for a relationship. Act cool and leave her hanging for a while. When is she finished exams? If its not for a couple of weeks, text her at the end and casually ask her how they went. If not, find another reason to just send a casual text in a couple of weeks. Silver Mirror: Sex buddies can be amazing, but your really going to have to lay down some boundaries. She's the one proposing it, so just give words to the effect of 'This means nothing' and get on with it. Give her the old 'oohs and 'aahs', make sure she has a good time and always use protection By the way, this only applies if you want sexy time too. Dont go lowering yourself just to make her feel slightly better ------------------- <3 Natman Something in my throat made my next words shake...
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cherry101461 R.I.P King of Pop no-stoppin-me-now total posts: 247 since: Mar 2008	Jun 05, 08 at 8:38pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	I have a question... So my ex broke up with me. I'm okay with that. Next day, i found out he's been cheating on me and we only have been going out for a week not anymore obviously Should I call him and start insulting him or... what else? -------------------
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PSTW0 Kind of a big deal ultra seeker total posts: 1369 since: Mar 2004	Jun 05, 08 at 8:39pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	quote cherry101461 Should I call him and start insulting him Most definitely, yes. -------------------
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Master Tenku Are we there yet? total posts: 9999 since: Feb 2005	Jun 05, 08 at 8:43pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	quote cherry101461 I have a question... So my ex broke up with me. I'm okay with that. Next day, i found out he's been cheating on me and we only have been going out for a week not anymore obviously Should I call him and start insulting him or... what else? quote Your only 11 and it only lasted a week, you will be in plenty more relationships so don't let it get to you that much. ------------------- Formerly known as Matt_The_Master
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Bale Fire Neolithic total posts: 6422 GameGrep pts: 18209 since: Jan 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 9:00pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	quote matty1605 Silver Mirror: Sex buddies can be amazing, but your really going to have to lay down some boundaries. She's the one proposing it, so just give words to the effect of 'This means nothing' and get on with it. Give her the old 'oohs and 'aahs', make sure she has a good time and always use protection quote H_o_p_e If you want sum sexin too, go for it. You CAN have JUST sex, and she proposed it.... Make her feel good about herself, just lay down the law b4 hand, and let her know its a one time deal with no attached feelings. But that's the thing I don't want to have sex with her, I don't feel any attraction to her at all. The only reason I would ever even consider doing it is out of pity and that doesn't seem like a good reason. And I really doubt she won't get emotionally attached to me, shes always been a bit clingy -------------------
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Megacoolstar Can I stay at your place? No Hobo. Still Seekin' total posts: 3333 since: Nov 2007	Jun 05, 08 at 9:03pm ^ re: Dating: Asking, Conflicts, & Tips ^35
	Alright, so a school i go to is seperated from boys and girls untill 12th grade. I live about a 45 minutes from my school, so I carpool to save gas. The girl that i carpool with is not considered hot by some spoiled kids at my school who say the only hot women is a Asian women and a brown hair women. They also say that blondes are dumb. Sure enough, the girl that i like is blonde, but i dont like her because of that.Shes the smartest person ive ever seen in my life, and i honestly cant stand to not be around her. She's beatiful, but has a kind of Sarcastic and slightly mean approach that puts most men at a distance. Ive tried my best to get her to notice me, ive done whatever i know she likes, but to no avail. I only see in the morning, and i just want to know: HOW CAN I MAKE HER NOTICE ME? ------------------- I'm standing in a field full of landmines doing the moonwalk hoping I blow up in time.
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